Nancy Daniels

Love Interrupted...Love Fulfilled



Posted: Saturday, February 14, 2009

by Nancy Daniels
Voice Dynamic

On November 30, 1996, my graduating class gathered for a pre-celebration of our 25th reunion at our old high school.  We would later head to the Hilton Inn for food and festivities but at this moment we were standing in the foyer, meeting, greeting and hugging old friends from years past.  Our class president, Harry Santoro, hushed the group and amidst the quiet handed the microphone to Phil Daniels.  In a bit of a faltering voice, Phil looked in my direction and said the following words ever so sweetly:
 
"I can't think of a better place or a better time,  
    because of all the plans we made while we were here in school.
 
Things changed and we went our separate ways. 
    But now I have the chance again.
 
Nancy, I love you…
    Will you marry me?"
 
The Oh's and Ah's from the crowd were touching as everyone looked over to me for my answer.  Never one at a loss for words, I was stunned and speechless because I was not expecting a proposal at that particular moment. 
Because the town in which I grew up did not have its own high school, we Maple Shaders were bussed to Merchantville, New Jersey, for the 10th, 11th, and 12th grades.  A few days into that September of 1968, I remember telling my mom that I had met a boy.  I didn't know if his name was Phillip Daniels or Daniel Phillips but I thought he was wonderful. 

Phil and I were the first to ‘go steady' (as we said in those days) from the blending of the Maple Shade students with the Merchantville kids and we remained a couple until our senior year.  Going our separate ways and living our separate lives, the time had come when we were to be together again which neither of us had known until that fall of 1996.

Of course I said Yes.  I knew this man.  It was Phil; it was my high school sweetheart; and, there was no doubt in my mind or in my heart that it would work.

As I was living in Canada at the time and Phil was in New Jersey, our time together was limited.  I wanted to marry at the end of the school year the following June and then move back to Jersey.  My mom, the eternal optimist and one who loved Phil as well, said, "You've been apart for 26 years.  That's long enough.  Get married now!"  Since my mother had eloped and her mother had eloped, it seemed only fitting to continue the tradition in a somewhat similar fashion.

So we were married in a little stone church in the woods in Strathroy, Ontario, on January 2, 1997.  Because my minister was in Western Canada visiting his sons at the time, we were unable to be wed in my own church, but the late Jack Burghardt, Deputy Mayor of London, Ontario, and a minister himself, graciously agreed to perform the ceremony.

                                  

It was foggy that night and the roads were deserted.  Helen, my maid of honor, got lost trying to navigate her way through the dark woods in search of a church with which neither of us was familiar.   But finally we found the ‘Little Brown Church in the Wildwood,' as I refer to it, hidden among the trees on a gravel path, its lights beckoning us from the road.   Helen's husband Robert, as well as my two boys, attended.  Jack's girlfriend played the organ for us; the service was video-taped; and, after the ritual of the vows, my 10-year-old son recited a verse from Proverbs completely at his own discretion.

Following the ceremony, Helen and Robert treated us to a wonderful dinner at Michael's on the Thames.  As we sat in the corner surrounded by windows, the view of the river and London's foggy landscape was mesmerizing; and, while others might have envisioned the evening as damp and dreary, I found it to be warm and enveloping because of this most unusual balminess generally not experienced in that part of Canada at that time of year.

Aside from one other couple, the restaurant was empty; and, here I was married to my high school sweetheart, dressed in a beautiful white silk gown.  The table was laden with flickering candles as we ate rack of lamb while the maitre'd serenaded us with the Hawaiian Wedding Song. 

Most brides will tell you that because of the stress of planning a wedding coupled with the large number of those in attendance, the big day goes too quickly and that they often don't remember much of it.  Since weddings today are more akin to events, I would not generally describe them as romantic; however, I can say that January 2, 1997 was truly the most romantic evening I have ever experienced and a night I will never forget!   

Our love may have been interrupted 26 years earlier, but it was certainly fulfilled that night amidst the ‘Little Brown Church in the Wildwood' and a restaurant with a singing maitre'd.

A graduate of Gettysburg College with a Bachelor's Degree in Music, The Voice Lady Nancy Daniels discovered her 'real' voice while pursuing graduate studies at American University in Washington, DC.

As a voice specialist and president of Voice Dynamic, Daniels offers corporate and 2-day workshops throughout the US and Canada. In April of 2006, she launched Voicing It!, the only video training course on voice improvement. You can watch clips from her DVDs on her website and before' & after' takes of her clients, as well as gain valuable information about voice improvement and what it can do for you both personally and professionally at: http://www.voicedynamic.com

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» left by Val Silver
 3 years 74 days ago.
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Hi Nancy, Such a wonderful, romantic story, thanks for sharing. My second husband and I eloped as did some of my family members (including my parents. Guess we have something in common! Val
» left by Carmellita M Brown
 3 years 74 days ago.
14 fans.
Beautiful and sincere.
» left by Nancy Daniels 3 years 71 days ago.
Thank you Carmelitta,
 
Nancy
» left by Ronyae
 3 years 73 days ago.
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Nancy,
 
Such a beautiful write; and such an encouragement as well! Thanks for sharing it with us.
» left by Nancy Daniels 3 years 71 days ago.
You are welcome, Ronyae.  I hadn't thought it encouraging but I am glad to hear it is.
 
Nancy
» left by Sian Murphy
 3 years 73 days ago.
2 fans.
It was so nice to see the two comparative photo's. What an inspirationtal story and I would have found it interesting to find out a bit more about what had happened in between
» left by Nancy Daniels 3 years 71 days ago.
Sian,
 
What happened between those 26 years are too many lifetimes!
 
Thanks for reading my article,
 
Nancy
» left by Rich Johnson
 3 years 73 days ago.
Nancy - thanks - this is a very pleasant note to end my day on.
 
Rich Johnson
» left by Nancy Daniels 3 years 71 days ago.
Rich,
 
You are welcome and I am glad you could end your day on a pleasant note,
 
Nancy
» left by Barbara Clark
 3 years 72 days ago.
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Inspirational and a touching, sweet story, Nancy. You are blessed to have each other. Warmly, Barbara
» left by Nancy Daniels 3 years 71 days ago.
Barbara,
 
Thank you and we both agree with you,
 
Nancy
» left by Ken McCreless
 3 years 72 days ago.
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Is the little Brown Church in the Wildwood referring to a song? Great story, awesome writing, Nancy. How blessed you are. Me too.
» left by Nancy Daniels 3 years 71 days ago.
Ken,
 
Absolutely.  Title:  Little Brown Church in the Wildwood.  I seem to remember singing this song as a soloist when I was a child. 
 
Appreciate the kudos,
 
Thank you,
 
Nancy
» left by Cheryl Janecky
 3 years 72 days ago.
14 fans.
Loved reading it - what a wonderful experience and well-told - I felt like I was "there!"
 
Thanks! Cheryl
» left by Nancy Daniels 3 years 71 days ago.
Cheryl,
 
Those are about the best words a writer can hear.  Thank you much,
 
Nancy
» left by Roger Ingbretsen
 3 years 71 days ago.
3 fans.
I believe many lucky people can relate to this heart warming story.
» left by Nancy Daniels 3 years 71 days ago.
Roger,
 
Other comments tell me that several others have had similar experiences.  Thanks for reading it.
 
Nancy
» left by Marcus Birmingham
 3 years 71 days ago.
I truly enjoyed this article, it was simple, but truly inspirational. I think I'll give my high school sweetheart a call!
» left by Nancy Daniels 3 years 71 days ago.
Marcus,
 
I'm a little behind in responding to my comments and so I started from the bottom up.  Yours being the most recent, you made me laugh right from the start.
 
Give her a call.  It could change your life!
 
Nancy

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